longing is an immense reserve of active power, touched with the creative, the tender, the divine. when we long, we move toward. we reach. it is held in the roots of the Word: form the Old English langian, meaning ‘to grow long,’ and the German langen—to reach, to extend. in Hebrew, it comes from the same root as the word for passion. The place you suffer, in other words, is the same place you reach from: the same place you care profoundly enough to act. to grow long.
Wow, thank you so much for providing this etymology. I love the place that you reach from is the place where you suffer—and that combination of the creative, the tend, and the divine spawns longing. Thanks so much.
I’ve felt a lot of longing since 2020. Back then it was for a woman’s touch. I’m not even talking about sex, literally just touch. You don’t know what you take for granted until it’s suddenly and inexplicably gone.
Chrsitina's World by Andrew Wyeth is one of my favourite paintings (along with the story behind it) - and it does capture longing in the way you describe. Really appreciated reading the meditation on longing versus desire.
I love your distinction here between desire and longing. Also, this painting by Wyeth is one of my favorites, as well as the Hass quote! Thanks for sharing these thoughts as well as your fantastic podcast. I discovered it a few weeks ago through Jeannine Oullette.
Beautiful. I never thought about longing as so decisive, it’s own powerful emotion and how singular it is.
longing is an immense reserve of active power, touched with the creative, the tender, the divine. when we long, we move toward. we reach. it is held in the roots of the Word: form the Old English langian, meaning ‘to grow long,’ and the German langen—to reach, to extend. in Hebrew, it comes from the same root as the word for passion. The place you suffer, in other words, is the same place you reach from: the same place you care profoundly enough to act. to grow long.
thank you for your Words <3
Wow, thank you so much for providing this etymology. I love the place that you reach from is the place where you suffer—and that combination of the creative, the tend, and the divine spawns longing. Thanks so much.
I’ve felt a lot of longing since 2020. Back then it was for a woman’s touch. I’m not even talking about sex, literally just touch. You don’t know what you take for granted until it’s suddenly and inexplicably gone.
Yes! I loved your distinction between longing and desire. Both intense and often tied together yet longing colors your life so deeply.
The back story on Wyeth’s painting - such a courageous woman.
Chrsitina's World by Andrew Wyeth is one of my favourite paintings (along with the story behind it) - and it does capture longing in the way you describe. Really appreciated reading the meditation on longing versus desire.
Oh, I'm glad you know the story behind the painting. I wanted to include that. So fascinating. Thanks for reading and for your kind words.
I love your distinction here between desire and longing. Also, this painting by Wyeth is one of my favorites, as well as the Hass quote! Thanks for sharing these thoughts as well as your fantastic podcast. I discovered it a few weeks ago through Jeannine Oullette.
Thanks so much for your comments, Libby! I re-read Hass's "Meditation at Lagunitas" with regularity. I'm so glad you listen to Write-minded.
Yes! I first discovered that Hass quote/poem through Rebecca Solnit’s essay “The Blue of Distance”...also all about longing!
This is exactly what my soul needed to read today. 🥰 Always love these missives and how they add a layer of deep thought & introspection to my day.
Ah, thanks so much, Elayna! I love your missives as well!